Attachment

The meaning of the word "preet" is attachment.

Sometimes i totally disagree with Shakespeare that "Whats in name......" thing he said...

Don't u think that some people are same as like their name??

I am.

Rain is.

So are bhupen, pratik.....

I am so easily attached to the things i like/love. People of my type,some ideas, things like this blogging stuff and some songs and movies close to my heart. It cant be said that i am emotional. Emotional is the person who can get involved in anyone.But not me.

Osho says that Love is nothing but Attachment.

Its like one person has been bonded to the other person completely. That person has merged into the other.Forgotten himself.And now in every thing, u see the other person.

He explains it by saying that Its like a tree which gets attached to the earth. Or a child attached to the mother's womb.Slowly this attachment takes place and you don't realize how deep inside the ground the roots have penetrated.Its just when someone tries to uproot u, or disturb the whole arrangement, the pain which comes makes u realize that u were attached.

Attachment flowers only when its proper. By proper i mean u can't plant a cashew nut tree in black soil of Vidarbha. it needs the earth found in the Konkan region to get fully nourished and grow. Or sugarcane cant be planted in the alluvial soil.Its only when the earth accepts that tree, the tree will survive and grow.

Attachment does miracles.If the soil is going dry, the tree starts losing its beauty. If the soil is happy with the rains, the tree too swings in happiness. Its a communion.

Same things happen with me in relationships i get attached to.

Sometimes i feel i should contact Pratik, and at the other end he is trying to contact me bcoz at that time we both are in need of each other. Same with everyone else.

Their worries become ur worries.If they are in pain u feel it too. And i think,when they share their burdens, that burden become yours and you start felling heavy then and there. the best part is that their burden is reduced.

What i want to say that very few people have a heart which is capable of accepting that a person has become attached to me and its perfectly OK.That is a heart of Gold.becoz when the earth refuses to accept a plant, it dies. And the Golden Heart will never hurt anyone.Me too sometimes dont accept that some people become attached to me.....but then i have to sustain...i have to give them space...for they are in need...

It gives a feeling of incompleteness when u know that the person u are attached to, is not attached to you...a feeling of emptiness...and a bit of sadness....

But you have to accept it...

Becoz u have to live with it...with the hope that someday...that person will also respond...if you are true to this universe... if u are true to that person...if u are true to u..

The day will be so beautiful..

Have a nice day today...